Mar 28, 2022

The biggest MYTH about spontaneous SEX | Rethink social messages about sex

Sex therapist, Jami Lynn Bula, reacts to the social belief that "spontaneous" sex is the BEST!

The media has constructed a picture of sexuality that is passionate, carefree, and spontaneous.

However, most people in long-term relationships have lived the reality that planned sex is a necessary and helpful part of maintaining a healthy relationship.

The expectation that sex should be spontaneous often makes sex even more elusive.

In today's video, I'll walk you through steps to break this harmful sex myth and give you the facts about the sexiness of planning!

Jami Lynn

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DISCLAIMER: This content is not therapy, nor is it a substitute for therapy. If something in this video is activating, illuminating, or intriguing to you - please seek a trained professional to explore the topic with

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